Friday, March 15, 2013

Easiest birth order

      Every family is different regarding birth order.Some family the middle one is very happy,they have oldest taking care of them,they do not have the same pressure like the oldest one.in some familly is different.

     The most difficult life is for the Oldest one,he is under pressure for his whole life,always care about the youngest.Parents are also expected a lot from them,the youngest is expected is also expected love,money or something.

 

Therefore the most easier life come to the only child.He/She does not have sibbling to think about.no worry about life,because they know their parents can take care of them.They might think about some family if they want to help.But sometimes the only child are  also self-fish.

 

 

 

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Homework birth other

      Everybody dreams about having family,live in family is the best thing in the world.Sometimes it used to have a little conflict between the children.when you've been spendind 10 years or more as an only child,after your parents get another child you become jealous of the other.That is how it is in familly.Does it weird to be jealous of your sisters or brothers?



      My youngest sister was 8 years old when my Mom has her last child, which is my little brother.But before the youngest one was born,she was the jewelery and also the baby of the family.Everytime my Mom went out,she always bring something for her:cookies,juice or something.not only my Mom almost everybody.She was spoiled,annoying sometimes.

       After my Mom had  my little brother,everything has changed.She cried when my Mom gave birth to my youngest brother.Because she knows what going to happen.Now my litte brother take her place,and she started act like the oldest regarding my little brother.She also start knowing what kind of pressure we had on us as oldest and middle children.As Lucille K.Forrer says"Parents treat the child in accordance to his place in the family"That is so true,me as the middle child regarding of my youngest brother and sister I have more pressure than them.My Mom is expected a lot from me,she told me one day that I have to set an example for my youngest sibling.

     When I look at the author idea about birth order,comparing to my family.There is not a big difference.It is seems like the author grew up on a extended family,that is why she wrote about birth oder and everything she says about each,Oldest,middle,youngest it is true.